"May God bless you and keep you always, may your wishes all come true, may you always do for others, and let others do for you. May you build a ladder to the stars and climb on every rung. May you stay forever young.
May you grow up to be righteous, may you grow up to be true, may you always know the truth, and see the lights surrounding you. May you always be courageous, stand upright and be strong, may you stay forever young.
May your hands always be busy, may your feet always be swift, may you have a strong foundation when the winds of changes shift. May your heart always be joyful and may your song always be sung. May you stay forever young." -Bob Dylan


"Not talking about a year, no not three or four. I don't want that kind of forever in my life anymore. Forever always seems to be around when it begins, but forever never seems to be around when it end. So give me your forever, please your forever. Not a day less will do from you.
People spend so much time every single day runnin' 'round all over town givin' their forever away. But no not me, I won't let my forever roam and now I hope I can find my forever a home. So give me your forever, please your forever. Not a day less will do from you.
Like a handless clock with numbers, an infinite of time. No not the forever found only in the mind. Forever always seems to be around when things begin, but forever never seems to be around when things end. So give me your forever, please your forever. Not a day less will do from you." - Ben Harper

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Summer 2013


Well, I'm not as behind as I thought I was. I didn't think I had written since Elsa turned 18 months! Yeesh.

Gosh, I thought all of the changing would slow down, but Elsa learns new things and does new things every day. I wish I was better at documenting it all. I do have a little journal that I write letters to her at least once a month, but even then it is hard to remember all of the funny things she has done and the sweet things she has said. Her most recently accomplishments/my most recent head aches are (not really, they make me laugh, I just can't "pee in peace" anymore):

- turning on her light in her room
- unlocking the dead bolts on the doors
- opening the microwave
- unlatching the cabinet locks
- bringing her chair into our bathroom, climbing on it, and grabbing the toothpaste  and sucking it out of the tube

and the good ones:

- throwing away her dirty diapers in the trash can
- taking recycling out to the garage
- sweeping the kitchen floor
- continues to clean up her toys and books before nap time and bed time
- collecting sticks in the backyard to help daddy start the grill
- getting the news paper at the end of the driveway and bringing it inside
- pedaling on her tricycle





We are loving our new home. We've met just about every body on our street, and a few other families throughout the neighborhood. We've had quite a few of them over for dinner, which has been nice to get to know them all individually. I'm getting more comfortable entertaining people, but it still isn't a comfortable thing for me. I always thought hosting would come naturally considering there are few times I remember it being just my family in our house growing up, but I guess I didn't inherit that chip. My mom is the queen of hosting and making everyone feel comfortable stopping by, grabbing a meal, or living in a bedroom for an indefinite amount of time. I hope one day to be as selfless with my space as she has been. 


Reading with Daddy


Enjoying the pool in the back yard

We also switches churches in February, which has been amazing for us. We loved our old church, and still miss it, but the community we have at our new church has been a blessing. And it is nice not having to drive 30 minutes to church on Sunday, though the drive was well worth it while it lasted. There are 3 other families in our neighborhood that go to our church, whom also happen to be good friends of ours. We also joined a small group a couple months ago for the first time since we've been married and instantly felt connected to the people in it. One of the other women in the group goes to the same gym I attend, so we see each other most mornings of the week. Our girls are the same age, so they get to play together in the childcare at the gym, and in Sunday School at church.


Marbles Museum with our new small group friends

Elsa, Elsa Elsa....My doctor couldn't even help me out. Whenever she thinks she is being laughed at, she cries...hysterically. It doesn't catch me completely by surprise seeing how her daddy and I are two of the most sensitive people we know, BUT, we laugh because she's so darn cute! Yet her crying takes the cuteness, almost, right out of it. It is so sad! She also seems to be getting more timid around other people. She does not like the attention being on her. At home, with mom and dad, she is her fun, goofy, sweet, silly self. But anywhere else, give her an hour before you get to see her glowing personality. It's a shame, because she is stripping people of the joy she is capable of bringing. She really is the sweetest little thing, I just wish everyone else could see that...this too shall pass. Hopefully quickly!



Look at that cuteness

We have loved this phase so much, that we booked a vacation! Ok, i'm kidding. I really am going to miss her terribly. We are leaving Elsa with Gigi and Pop for 6 days while we go enjoy the Bahamas. Every marriage needs this. Can't wait! We leave in just a few weeks! 

Elsa has turned into quite the fish. She runs and jumps into the pool, preferably when Shane and I are out of reach (don't worry, she's safe), goes to the bottom, and pushes off with her legs and bounces herself back to the steps of the pool. No floaty attached might I add. Quite impressive for the shy, sensitive,timid one. Just don't let strangers, or friends of mom and dad, look at her, or it strips her of her momentum. Ok, I might be exaggerating. 

Elsa has really gotten into the movies, The Sound of Music and Mary Poppins. We let her watch The Sound of Music at our house, but Mary Poppins is a treat at Grandma's; Shane and I are not big Mary Poppins fans. She also loves Veggie Tales and sings the theme song in between singing the whole Sound of Music soundtrack.



Most likely watching The Sound of Music 

She had memorized a couple bible verses and repeats them before bed at night, sings Jesus Loves Me, Amazing Grace, and Silent Night. It warms my heart. She also prays. The last prayer was thanking God for blinds, fans, and pillows...Dark, cool, and comfy. That's my girl.

The mom of the little girl I nannied last year has off June and July, so it has been Elsa and me all summer. At first I felt lost not having an obligation each day of the week, but I adjusted quickly. :) I adjusted so well that I told them I was not going to nanny this coming school year. We will miss her though. Her and Elsa really enjoyed each other.

At Elsa's birthday party

Shane started a new job in April or May, which he has been enjoying. It's within the same company, but in a department he is more passionate about. He loves what he is learning and enjoys who he is working with. I'm very proud of him. 

Elsa had her first dentist appointment and was a champ. Though, I don't see how you can't be good with a personal flat screen TV above your reclined chair. The hygienist and dentist were so kind and encouraging. No cavities! I just have a nugget of information. Gummy vitamins are one of the #1 causes of cavities these days in kids! Crazy, huh? So stay away from chewy yucky vitamins, fruit snacks, raisins, etc.



First dentist appointment

Thanks for reading! Enjoy the rest of the
pictures!

Pullen Park


Fun with cousins




Easter weekend in Monroe

Loves getting her toe nails painted

Loves reading books

Strolling with Grandpa


Picking strawberries this summer


Elsa's 2nd birthday party

Watching videos of herself on Daddy's phone

swinging at the neighborhood park 

Waverly Place splash ground

Walking to the library with her buddy, Lochlan

Being Miss Priss in Mommy's shoes

Marble's Museum with cousins

YMCA playground

Celebrating Uncle David's birthday at IHOP

July 5th party, watching fireworks

BFF

Celebrating Shelby and Will getting married!

Feeling like hot stuff in Uncle Tim's truck, on the way to Monroe for the weekend. 

Popsicles with cousin Noah

 Playing in the bunk beds at Ikea with Aunt Megs and Noah

Helping Daddy wash the car


on a 'nut-run